Do you believe this is true?
I mean...I do, because I'm a male... but every now and then, I try to break the cycle, only to come back to operating under this type of logic.
The funny thing is, some women agree. They'll respond with "Sad, but true." Its scary at the same time that women acknowledge this, but choose to sell themselves short.
Since women acknowledge this, why continue to proclaim "Niggas Ain't Shit",If all y'all like is Shit? Who are we to change what works?
I honestly think that when a man treats a woman like shit and she sticks with him, its probably that thrill of the chase. Everyone loves a challenge. Or maybe she wants to be that "special one" that REFORMS HIM into a good man."
I'll give you a secret, ain't no pussy in the world that good for any nigga to "change for her". Most women fail to realize, that they do not and will not have the power to do so. Thats up to the dude. But if he's getting the upper hand being a asshole, why change? Does that mean he's going to get EVEN MORE ASS? lmao.
Thats like eating at a chinese restaurant all your life and you've just found out the REAL reason why their chicken wings are so big....It was still good before you found out right?
I'm just saying...for the chicks out here that say we ain't shit, but y'all sit there and take shit...why bitch and moan? Thats obviously what you want?
wait, my fault, it's what you're..."used to".
Many women present this argument to me:
"...but men are MORE LIKELY TO GET OUT of that kind of situation quicker than women..simply because your [our] ego can only take so much."
I don't think its our "ego" that's working for us in this situation; its more of a thing where the dude is finally coming to the realization that he is indeed, being played.
Women realize this, but continue to stay in the same situation because:
-It's their "safety net"
- Scared of "starting all over again"
- Believe they are the ones at fault
- Or think the nigga is finally going to "come to HIS senses".
When it finally hits them, they want to rebel and call us all types of "shit".
Where in the end...that's all they were fucking with.
Since everyone hopped on the no strings attached-great movie btw- subject, I will talk about this one! I just want to say that this subject isn't really gender specific! I see a lot of cases when gurls are being treated like crap and the stay! That's dumb! Simple and plain! I wish chicks would know their worth or better realize it sooner than later and don't allow men or better yet boys to treat them any less than they are worth!
ReplyDeleteBut as of late just as many gurl cases I have seen I have seen just as many dudes in the same predicament ,its surprising to see because unlike females it is assumed that men aren't as emotionally driven in relationships; so when I see them being treated like dirt and staying I am shocked! -don't feel bad but still shocked!
It gives them a feminine appeal! Yes it is a double stabdard gurls can jump back as soon as they let the dude go or recriprocate the same bad actions-revenge-.
But for a dude it is forever imprinted, your a sucka, aka bitch ________ please insert in the blank what you call a soft dude! That will always be the subject of conversation between the chicks that know that guy! Remember when so and so got played! And the dude becomes the friend rather than the guy of interest :-)
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Nobody's perfect; experience is def the best teacher! So the moral of my rambling if you've been treated like shyt before and where blessed to get out the situation try not to let that shyt repeat itself!