Fuck Buddies and Feelings

Of course this is some more shit niggas don't understand. It's like you're damned if you do, or gay if you don't.

Ever had a woman try to come at you (male) on some "No strings attached" shit? The idea is too good to be true from the jump:

Girl: I don't want a relationship, I just want your dick.
Boy: (Thinking he has hit the lotto) Cool.

Now Fuck.


After months and months of phone calls setting up rendezvous and "What you doin?" texts, the girl starts to catch feelings. The guy, doesn't. Why? Because he's honoring his end of the "agreement". YOU wanted me for sex and that's all you're goin to fuckin' get.

In turn, Girl becomes a rebel and ends up accusing this nigga of being "ain't shit" or withholding certain aspects of sex (usually head or licking the balls) where in fact, all he was doing was honoring something YOU created. This also established our respect level for you too.

We respect and like the fact that you're giving us the ass with little to no effort on our part.

But we don't dig the fact that it really does take NO effort to get the pussy. In the back of our heads we're already thinking that we ain't the first person to have these types of terms with you and probably won't be the last.

And if that's "Giving your all" then gotdamn that sucks.

Why establish a contract you have no intentions of honoring?
Now matter how much a woman claims to play the "game" or "think like a male" they'll always be more emotional than their counterparts. It's like some women want to test their emotions or psyche themselves out of reality.

Be real: most of the women (that I know) that can have sex with no feelings technically jump from dick to dick. Like every 6 months or if the shit starts to slum for the conservative woman. Society would call 'em "hoes" due to the double standard, but hey... It is what it is.

Now take the flip-side: say the guy caught feelings throughout the whole ordeal. The first thing out of MOST (not all) women mouths would be, "Gotdamn, give a bitch some space!" or "He's sprung".

Why is the man theoretically "Sweating you" or "On dicks" when he grows to like a woman via sex, but the woman isn't all of these things when she starts to feel shit?

That's another thing; women and men emotional speeds are totally different.

A woman's feeling speed is akin to a Ferrari; A male's, a Go-Kart. But that's another topic.

I keep calling it "A Battle of Wits" or a control thing. I don't look at situations like this as "She just wants to fuck me", it's more on some shit like "Who's going to give-in/catch feelings first?"

Most niggas will unconsciously "win" every time. Even when they aren't truly "playing", because we're too busy fucking pussy. It's hard for us to feel used when we've achieved what most men look forward to doing with a woman.


The one with the least amount of feelings will ALWAYS have the upper hand.

Why subject yourselves to unnecessary torture like that? Who are we to tell you "no, baby. I don't want the pussy right now. I really want to get more of feel for you as a person."

Shit, it's easy pussy.

But watch, ima get all the women that has "never been through this" or "The nigga always know what it is, I've never had this problem. They always end up falling for this WET-WET"

Stop wellin' shawty and stop calling your shit "wet-wet". Fuck's wrong with you

You might not want a full blown relationship, but you want that dick for yourself. Had you found out he was fucking someone else, you'd stop doing shit like sucking him off because you so-called "only do that for your MAN", something you know you really don't exclusively reserve that act for.


If the nigga found out you were fucking someone else, yeah it'd be kinda ho-esque, but it wouldn't be that much of a deal to him most likely. After all, he's still smashing.

Just something I thought about. No attack, just sharing my reflection and experience from being the sprung nigga and the non-emotional nigga.

Word to yo' daddy's leather sandals.